People often ask me why I golf so much. Their curiosity ranges from polite inquiries to genuine bewilderment. After all, isn’t golf just a time-consuming, expensive hobby reserved for retirees or corporate networking? The answer, for me, is simple and profound. Golf isn’t just a hobby; it’s my sanctuary.
There’s something about stepping onto the green that feels like stepping into another world. In our fast-paced lives, distractions are everywhere—phones ringing, emails piling up, endless to-do lists. But on the golf course, it’s just you, the ball, and the great outdoors. That’s the first reason I love it: zero distractions. Out there, I’m free from the noise, both literal and metaphorical, that dominates our daily lives. It’s a space where I can be fully present, focused on the game and the natural beauty around me.
The second reason is the weather. There’s something magical about being out on the course on a crisp morning, with the dew still clinging to the grass, or on a warm afternoon with the sun shining down. I’ve played in all kinds of weather, and each condition brings its own challenge and charm. Rain might make the course more difficult, but it also adds a serene, almost meditative quality to the game. And let’s not forget those perfect days where the sky is blue, and the temperature is just right. On those days, it feels like the world is smiling on you.
But golf isn’t just about the weather or the scenery; it’s also about the challenge of the game. Every round is different, every shot unique. There’s always something to improve, whether it’s your swing, your short game, or your mental approach. It’s a sport that requires patience, precision, and a bit of strategy. It’s also a game of honesty—there’s no one to blame but yourself for a bad shot, and there’s a real satisfaction in seeing your hard work pay off with a great one. The challenge keeps me coming back, striving to get better, and enjoying the small victories along the way. That one good shot is all it takes.
Then there’s the camaraderie. Golf may be a solitary sport at times, but it’s also deeply social. Whether you’re playing with friends, family, or even strangers, there’s a unique bond that forms on the course. There’s plenty of time between shots for conversation, jokes, and friendly competition. The golf course is a place where friendships are forged, and memories are made. It’s where life slows down enough to really connect with others.
Sure, golf can be expensive, but when you weigh it against the cost of other vices, it seems like a bargain. I don’t drink, do drugs, or date, so for me, the cost of a round of golf is an investment in my well-being. It’s my therapy, my exercise, and my escape rolled into one. I’d rather spend my money on a good set of clubs and a tee time than on nights out or other distractions.
So why do I golf so much? Because it’s where I find peace, challenge, and connection. It’s where I can be myself, free from the stresses of everyday life. Golf isn’t just a game to me—it’s my sanctuary.
